Friday, July 31, 2009

All my children wedding

It is totally up to the bride and groom whether they are inviting their children to the Wedding Ceremony or not. It is a fact that children are unpredictable. You cannot predict their behavior in advance. If you want to know how to handle the situation in the most effective way then this article is rightly meant for you.

It is absolutely right that parents always take part in their children’s marriage. They participate in the ceremony happily and pray that “all my children wedding should take place without any obstruction.”

But in some of the cases, children also get an opportunity to participate in their parents’ marriage. It is quite a genuine thing in the western nations. The reaction of the children to their parents wedding depends on their personal outlook. Some children respect the feelings of their parents and approve their marriage. They even participate in the event with full happiness. After all, their parents nurtured for their entire lifetime and they also have some duties and responsibilities towards their parents.

On the other hand, some children compare their parent’s decision with their own social standard. For them the remarriage of their parents is not acceptable under any of the circumstances. Sometimes they even try to obstruct the ceremony in one way or the other. This is not fair anyhow but it directly depends on one’s personal judgment.

If your children are happy with you decision then it is really a good thing. If not, then there are some alternatives available to tackle down the situation. If your personal relationship with your children is not up to the mark then you can invite them to the reception with a formal invitation. You can also invite them to a private dinner instead of the main ceremony.

If they respect the blood relationship then they would come. If they think they are right at their place then also it is your formal duty to send an invitation card. There are many reasons due to which a person decides to marry in the later stage of life. If unfortunately, you have lost your life partner (husband or wife) and feeling loneliness then there is nothing wrong to marry again. After divorce also you have the moral right to live your life up to your own will.

Sometimes the couple marries after having their children. They understand their responsibility and decide to live as a family. This is totally a different story but here also children get an opportunity to participate in their parents wedding (it doesn’t matter how old they are!!!!)

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