Showing posts with label wedding day. Show all posts
Showing posts with label wedding day. Show all posts

Friday, May 29, 2009

Summer Wedding Dress

A woman dreams about her wedding since her very childhood. It is her special day when she will walk up the aisle perfectly dressed and looking gorgeous to wed the love of her life. Therefore it is important to her to be dressed perfectly. Many girls spend more time discussing wedding gowns than any other dress. In fact along with the right choice of groom, the right choice of wedding dress can make or mar the wedding. The dress should be appropriate for the occasion, the weather and it should match the theme of the wedding venue.

Summer weddings have become very popular, and there are many designers who keep them already ready and you can buy one off the shelf. The fabric has to be soft and light, which means lighter varieties of silk and satin are a good option. You can also opt for chiffon, organza, organdy, georgette and even crepe. Some blends like cotton-rayon mix, or Chinese silk will be perfect for the wedding dress. Charmeuse is another wonderful fabric, very popular in summer wedding dresses. You should look for a fabric that is airy and can breathe so that it is comfortable.

Generally destination weddings have become popular in the summers such as beach weddings, or a wedding in a park or garden. Whatever might be the venue of the summer wedding; you can get a dress made which is suitable for the season and look very bridal too. The main difference is the fabric and the amount of embroidery and embellishment. For a summer wedding, a wedding dress in a light weight fabric, preferably in pastel or summery colors is an ideal choice. Rose, light blue, yellow and eggshell white are good colors for your gown. It is a lucky bride who gets married in the peak of summer i.e. May to August, since most of the dresses designed for a bride are without sleeves or backless. Halters, spaghetti straps and other such sexy gowns are specially designed for summer brides. It makes the hunt for the special dress so much easier.

Nowadays brides are showing a marked preference for informal or casual summer wedding dresses. This is mainly because they do not want to spend a huge amount of money on a dress that can only be worn once. A casual dress can be worn by the bride at an informal summer wedding. This is preferred because they do not want to spurge on something expensive which cannot be worn again, except for a very special occasion. Instead, a casual dress can be worn at other occasions.

A smart sundress can be worn by the bride in white or in a color that matches the venue or the wedding. It could be a short dress, just up to the knees. Some daring brides have also gone in for mini-skirts. These look very good, but you need to be tall and slim for the dashing effect.
If you do not have the height, you could wear a summer dress which is mid-length or a sarong with a flowery print. For a beach wedding you could wear it with an off shoulder top. If it is a beach wedding you could add a lei headband on the head for the summery natural look.
You could also opt for lightweight silk flowing gown that goes well with the casual ambience of your summer wedding.

In keeping with the summery theme of your wedding you could consider adding the bounty of nature to your wedding. You could pick up a pretty color like pink or lemon and get the bridesmaid dresses in line with the main theme. You must add a nice bouquet of flowers that match the dress or set it off nicely. The same floral arrangement can be placed on the tables to complete the effect.
It is important to realize that summer heat makes hair styles impossible to maintain. Limp hair gets more lifeless and lacks luster, frizzy hair gets frizzier. In such a scenario, it is smarter to keep the hair style casual. A simple hairstyle like keeping the hair loose and pinning in some flowers or keeping it in place with a headband can look very nice. Alternatively you can tie your hair into a pony tail and add some flowers for that natural and fresh look.

Team the entire ensemble with strappy footwear and you will look like a lovely fresh summer bride and captivate all your guests.

Tuesday, March 31, 2009

How to Pick the Right Wedding Theme for You

Do you know what style of wedding that you want to have? You may not have thought about this before though understanding your personal wedding style which support you in making better choices as you plan your wedding.

There are 4 standard ceremony styles, though keep in mind there is always room to make your wedding personal to you.

Traditional: traditional weddings are performed in a church, synagogue, or temple by the certified member of your church.

Contemporary: contemporary wedding ceremony will be in a beautiful location like a garden or beach, historical building, or private residence that has a lot of space. R Contemporary wedding are still performed by a religious leader just not in a church or other similar religious building.

Unique: unique wedding ceremonies are those that are completely different. For instance people have gotten married underwater, on mountains, or in a plane. The only thing that hinders a unique wedding is your imagination.

Private: private weddings are weddings with intimate number of people or a wedding performed at city hall. Often private weddings are chosen when people are farther away from their family and will host a wedding party at a later date.

Once you know your ceremony style, you can chose from different overall wedding styles.

Formal wedding: formal wedding is what you think of when you see a fairy take wedding in a movie. A formal wedding is the traditional wedding in a church, tons of flowers and decorations, wedding reception with the triple layered cake, dance to embarrass the family and so on. The attire is formal for the guests and the bridal party with your traditional wedding dresses and tuxedos for the men.

Casual wedding: a casual wedding typically has less people invited and the attire is more causal. Causal weddings are often in gardens, the beach, or some other intimate location. Typically the wedding party afterwords is in a lower key atmosphere like drinks on a dinner cruise.

Themed wedding: themed weddings are easier when the wedding is also causal and has fewer guests than your traditional wedding. There are many different possible themes and can be a challenge to get every guest in the appropriate theme.

Thursday, January 15, 2009

Etiquette for Second Time Brides

With encore weddings (where one member of the couple has been married before) representing approximately 40 percent of all weddings today, it is time we reconsider tired, old etiquette rules, because most just don't apply to the way we live today.

According to a popular online second wedding guide, aptly named I Do Take Two, the first consideration should be the children, if there are any, and their comfort level and concerns. If there are children involved, they should be informed before others about the wedding and considered in the planning process. Inviting children to play a part in the ceremony is not only appropriate, but can also be a bonding experience. After all, this ceremony joins two families. Lighting a family unity candle is a wonderful idea to emphasize this.

Appropriate Roles for Children

a. Pass out wedding programs
b. Guest book guardians
c. Escorts for the bride Bridesmaids and groomsmen (adult children)
d. Jr. Bridesmaids, ushers and candle lighters (ages 9-15)
e. Flower girls, ring bearers and pages (ages 4-8)

Note: Please discuss these roles privately with your children and allow them to decide if they want to be involved.

Note: One usher per fifty guests.

So, what are the rules? The number one rule for all couples is to plan together. Perhaps former weddings were based on other's ideas of the perfect wedding. Well, today it is all yours. Your wedding can be formal or informal, large or small, and include any element of a first wedding you wish.

The bride can wear any color and any style that suits her age and figure. Veils and trains are now appropriate if part of the gown - but, no blusher veils. The couple may include multiple attendants. (See note above) Showers are fine, but should be small and intimate. Don't expect gifts from guests who attended the first wedding, though they may want to bring a small gift. Do not host the event in the same location as the first. Do not wear rings from former relationships. No former spouses unless agreed upon definitely by both bride and groom. It is confusing and puts others in an uncomfortable position. Are gifts appropriate? Yes! Gifts are appropriate for encore couples, so it's perfectly acceptable to register. However, those who attended former weddings and showers are not obligated to give a gift. Gifts should never be mentioned on wedding invitations. Register for gifts in a variety of price ranges.

------------------------

Learn more about second weddings and vow renewals at http://www.idotaketwo.com

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Wedding Dresses: Avoiding Gown Malfunctions

Talk to a single girl about wedding dresses and you're sure to get an earful of must-haves. They talk about fairy princess gowns, expensive brocade, and unique gowns meant only for them. When it's time for them to get their bridal gown, they fall down to earth with a bang.

Gown Malfunction

The thought of slipping or struggling into an ill-fitting wedding dress or tuxedo is everybody's nightmare, worse than fending off Freddy Krueger on Elm Street. Those heavenly wedding dresses and tuxedos you've seen on rows and rows of racks can become disasters if you don't make sure that alterations are carried out to perfection.

This is true if you've hastily ordered a gown on eBay or inherited a wedding gown from your grandmother's heyday. Reputable bridal shops have experienced modistes who will do the alterations and beadwork by hand. Their experience with wedding dresses won't have you ending up with tight chested gowns with tight armholes.

Other bridal dresses disasters including popping buttons, shrunk gowns, improper accessories, inappropriate undergarments, a zipper that won't close, and a tiara that does not look right with the gown. And these are discovered on the wedding day!

Avoiding Gown Disasters

Usually the gown is selected a year or six months before the wedding because several things can happen in-between. It's better to get a gown six months ahead, instead of a year. These helpful tips are products of years of wedding gown disasters handed from one bride to another.

Rules to go by for the perfect wedding gown:

* Don't get pregnant.
* Watch your weight.
* Follow a strict beauty regimen.

When shopping for the gown, don't let your groom, sister, bridesmaids and your mom tag along. Instead, choose one or two friends and your mom to go with to check out the wedding dresses on the rack. You can start the great hunt with a picture or photo cut-out of a wedding gown that has caught your fancy.

Other tips to follow:

* Don't get a gown with a long train if you have no handler. Although it looks romantic and gorgeous, having a long bridal train can be disastrous if you have no handler or someone to attend to the train whenever you move.

* Make sure the gown has the correct hem. During the fitting, bring the shoes with the right height so the hem can be adjusted accordingly.

* Wear the proper brassiere or corset for the perfect fit during the fitting.

* While fitting, choose the right veil, gloves, crinolines, and other wedding accessories at the same shop.

* Choose the right accessories to enhance the look of your gown.

* Fittings should take place 8 weeks before the wedding, and check the zippers and the buttons when the gown is delivered.

* If it can be arranged, have a fitting a week before the wedding.

* Have your bridal photo session and dress rehearsal two days before the wedding.

Remember that the wedding dresses reflect the tastes and personality of the bride, so make your choice, but listen to some comments or advice from the resident designer of the bridal shop. They have something to say to help you avoid those wedding gown disasters.

Wedding dresses make the bride, so do not rush and regret those wedding gown booboos.

Wedding Dresses - How to Buy Dreamy Wedding Gowns Online

Wedding dresses are literally the icing on the cake on every bride's wedding day. You can find perfect wedding gowns online, or simply brainstorm which style of wedding dresses to start looking for as you narrow down your search.

First you need to determine which types of wedding dresses are right for you.

Your wedding dress should tell the world exactly who you are. After all, this is YOUR day, and your wedding gown is the key way that you share yourself with your wedding guests — and, of course, your husband-to-be.

By now, you've likely given some thought as to what kind of wedding you would like to have: traditional, informal or a theme wedding, perhaps.

Here are some general guidelines:

In formal weddings, brides generally wear long white/cream-colored wedding dresses and a veil, perhaps a train and, of course, gloves.

In semi-formal weddings, brides generally wear long white/cream-colored wedding dresses, a veil and gloves if desired.

In informal weddings, brides have more flexibility. They can wear wedding gowns of any color — short or long — or even a suit.

What about theme weddings? Here you should decide first on the theme and then on the formality of the wedding you've always wanted to have. Only then is it time to shop for wedding dresses and wedding accessories to determine which ones match your theme!

As you can see, the most important aspect to consider when selecting wedding dresses is your own sense of style.

For specifics on what's appropriate to wear for each type of wedding, I recommend Emily Post's Wedding Etiquette, which devotes an entire chapter to wedding dresses and other fashion dos and don'ts, or Vera Wang on Weddings, in which Wang shares her vast fashion expertise with you as you plan your wedding. Both can be purchased from any major online bookstore and have great tips on buying wedding dresses.

How can you purchase wedding dresses online?

The Internet can be a tremendous help when you're looking for wedding gowns and have a tight wedding budget. And let's face it — most of us do have to keep the bottom line in mind when we plan the most important day of our romantic lives.

After you have given some thought to the type of wedding you want to have, I recommend that you:

  • Look through bridal magazines and check out your options by flipping through the pages to see which wedding dresses are available in your area.
  • Go to local bridal stores and try on wedding gowns.
  • Look online to see what other wedding dresses are available to you. In case you're uncertain about buying wedding gowns from an online vendor, bear in mind that there really are online bridal shops that deliver the same level of service as regular stores.
  • Compare the in-store price to the Internet dress stores to find out which is the better deal. Many online stores offer you discount wedding dresses because of their vastly reduced overhead costs!
  • Narrow down your search to a handful of wedding dresses that make your final cut.

When you've gone through all these steps, you're certain to have accessed all the wedding dresses available to you -- and you will very likely save your hard-earned money if you end up finding discount wedding dresses available only from an Internet vendor.

Good luck with your search! Though it might seem daunting at first, if you follow these tips, you'll be well on your way to finding a beautiful range of perfectly elegant wedding dresses.